There are no guarantees in life, particularly in marriage. In fact, marriage takes a lot of work, work that can and should be fun but sometimes, no matter how hard we try, it doesn't work. Then, we have to deal with the frustration, anxiety and pain of divorce.
Divorce is challenging. It infuriates us and can make us feel so angry and, at the same time, helpless. We can get lost in our emotions at the very moment we need a clear head to deal with the issues that divorce brings, like finances, how to care for the children, where am I going to live?
And divorce brings up many of our old, familiar feelings that can depress and demorialize us.
What can you do when this happens to you?
I have worked with divorcing and divorced men for over fifteen years and have helped many go though this process with the result that they not only feel better about themselves but can take the "high road" in dealing with their ex-spouse. This is important especially when there are children involved.
If this is your situation, call me and let me know if I can help you in your situation.